The Trouble With Expectations

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Q:  How do you define expectations?

 

Expectations are the belief in anything you wish to see.  An expectation is anything you wish would happen, and this can be a wide range of things.  It can be the expectation of somebody else’s behavior, as in how they should treat you or, what you should do, or what an outcome should be.  The expectations are a preconceived idea of what an outcome should be in any scenario.  That’s the definition of an expectation.

 

Q:  How can they cause disappointment?

 

The falsities of beliefs. What we want you to understand is an expectation is created in the mind. The mind creates the story to unfold.  When the story does not develop as you perceived it should, the result is disappointment and heartache. We want you to explore within your truth the expectation of your own life.  If you have lived a life consistently predicting future events, you have been disappointed many times.

 

What we want you to know is the story you created within your mind may not have been the reality of the truth of what was created for you or your partner.  Lisa says... "For example, if you had a relationship, and you had a story of how this relationship should end, but the other person doesn’t abide by your story, you’re going to be disappointed. There will be some kind of grief, heartache, or something that goes along with it. In this reality, we have to recognize the other person has their own life to live."  

 

The Akashic Records say... We want you to know that if you continually choose the stories you wish to live, you will find the expectations of that story disappointing.

 

Q:  How do we release these expectations?

 

Let go of the mind.  If you let go of the mind and allow things to unfold as they are meant to and have satisfaction with the result, it will alleviate your pain and disappointment.

Lisa says..."I can see it very clearly.  If I’m in my head and have a certain expectation of what an outcome should be, but the other person doesn’t follow along with my story, then I’m devastated.  I have heartache, and it feels like my life is ending.  

 

“If you can separate yourself from your mind, step back from the story, and go within yourself, it’s a time to reflect on who you are, truly connect with your heart, and sit in silence and meditate back into that place of truth.  Become familiar with your friend, your heart. Your heart will allow you to see things in a different perception than what your mind created.  Your heart will bring you the reality of truth, the truth of what the universe has created for you.  If you can get to that place and see things in a different scenario, you will begin to recognize this is all ok.  The story ended as it should.  Everything is as it is.  You gained the lessons you needed to learn, and you have to go on.  Until you can get to that place of truth, you will always have struggles.  It will be painful.  Things will happen that will always cause disruptions in your life.

 

“When they talk about letting your mind go, they mean getting out of your head.  Get out of your head and get back in your heart, and it will reveal the truth.”

 

Q:  What are the lessons we are to learn from these types of disappointments and expectations?

 

Recognize where the truth really lies, and that it is not in your head but in your heart. Realize that you create a story, and the story requires more than one player. There is never a story that includes you only. There are always other players. If the other players are not meant to play along with you, the story won’t unfold the way you fantasize. 

 

What we want you to know is your heart is filled with truth. Humans tend to jump into their heads and live in a fantasy world that creates heartache. Where is the truth in the word fantasy? Is the fantasy what you create in your mind, or what you create in the heart? The fantasy is what you fabricate in your mind. The truth and the knowing are what is in the heart. There is truth in our words that we speak to you.  

 

Begin to recognize where you can separate the heart and the mind.  Lisa says, "When you can start dividing where the heart is and where the mind is, and you can recognize when you are in your head, then you’ll begin to see how you can step back from what the mind created and step into the truth of who you are, and who you are meant to become."  

 

Q:  Any final thoughts from the Akashic Records?

 

There will be a point, and that point is yesterday, now, today, and in the future, that all human beings are being pushed to a place of recognizing what the truth is and what you create in your mind and your heart.

What humans are finding at this time, especially over the past year, is the truth they created in their mind has been blown up.  You are being pushed to the place of having to recognize that everything you create in your mind can fall apart and crumble.  When that happens, how do you resolve that issue? How do you get over that?  You start standing in your heart and recognizing this specific situation ended because it needed to, for your growth as humans, your spiritual growth, and your own understanding of who you were created to be as a human.  

This is happening everyday, all around the world.  Every human being on earth has been disappointed in one way or another in the last 24months.  In the previous 24 months, there has been much reconciliation of what beliefs are and where you as humans are headed.  This is what we have planned for you.  More and more, you will begin recognizing the truth is being revealed from the heart.

If you choose for your heart to do so, it can guide you and make your life more simplistic.  

This is what we are hereto tell you and guide you through.  We are your guides.  We are the words that whisper into your ears, telling you what the truth is.  We ask you what the truth is and how do you let go of falsehoods.  We are here to help you determine the human being you are going to become.

 

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